The Power of Self Control

Galatians 5:22 - But the fruit of the Spirit is… self-control

Physical exercise has clear benefits - stronger muscles, better health, increased energy. But spiritual exercise? Its benefits extend far beyond this life and into eternity. When we practice self-control, we're not just developing a character trait; we're preparing ourselves for eternal purposes. Each small act of self-control - controlling our tongue, managing our time, disciplining our thoughts - is like a spiritual workout that strengthens our faith and shapes us more into Christ's image.

"For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come." - 1 Timothy 4:7

Self-control is more than just willpower - it's a spiritual fruit that comes from living under the lordship of Jesus Christ. While many view self-control as restrictive, it actually enables us to experience greater freedom and effectiveness in our Christian walk.

What is Biblical Self-Control?
The biblical concept of self-control comes from two Greek words meaning "power within." It represents our ability to master ourselves through the Holy Spirit's strength, not our own. This internal power impacts every area of life - from our thoughts and emotions to our actions and habits.

Why is Self-Control Important for Christians?
Self-control influences all other spiritual fruits like love, joy, peace, and patience. Without discipline, we cannot fully express these characteristics in our lives. As 2 Timothy 1:7 reminds us, God gives us "power, love and self-discipline."

What Areas of Life Need Self-Control?
Several key areas require disciplined living:
  • Time management (Colossians 4:5)
  • Emotional control (Proverbs 16:32)
  • Speech and communication (James 1:26)
  • Thoughts and purity (Philippians 4:8-9)
  • Resisting temptation (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5)

How Do We Develop Self-Control?
  • Rely on the Holy Spirit, not human willpower
  • Live by convictions, not feelings
  • Maintain clear goals and vision
  • Choose wise influences and relationships
  • Focus on eternal rewards over temporary pleasure

What Does Jesus Teach About Self-Control?
Jesus modeled perfect submission to God's will, saying "Not my will, but yours be done" (Luke 22:42). He demonstrated that true self-control means aligning our desires with God's purposes, even when difficult.

Life Application
This week, identify one area where you need greater self-control. Write down a specific vision for what growth in this area would look like. Then, take these practical steps:
  • Pray daily for the Holy Spirit's help in this area
  • Find a scripture that addresses this aspect of self-control
  • Share your goal with a friend who can keep you accountable
  • Track your progress through journaling

Ask yourself:
  • What currently holds me back from exercising greater self-control?
  • Am I relying on my own strength or the Holy Spirit's power?
  • Who in my life encourages disciplined living?

Remember: We will never become all God intends without developing the spiritual fruit of self-control. The goal isn't restriction but rather freedom to live fully for Christ.

Holy Spirit, I acknowledge that I can't produce self-control on my own. Help me to rely on Your power within me rather than my own strength. Teach me to surrender my will to Yours. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Dr. Josh Franklin

1 Comment


Christine Fauver - January 30th, 2025 at 6:00am

Thank you for this blog post. I look forward to sharing it with Liam.